Archive for Trust
What is the difference?
I have heard, “It’s just a cute way of saying that someone else is masturbating you”, and you’d be forgiven to think so considering all the various videos and written material out there.
As an Intimacy Wellness therapist and educator, I would like to show you a different way, a way that brings wholeness, healing, and flourishing.
As there are so many wonderful men reading on this site, I would like to address this post to you and how to make your lady really feel nourished and opened up in a new way.
It all boils down to intention, being fully present with meditative consciousness. You have there in front of you a divine being.
Now, she may not feel divine, in her mind she may not look divine, but you have the power to consciously activate the loving masculine in you in order to release the radiant feminine divine in her.
Want to know how?
“We need 4 hugs a day for survival.
We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.
We need 12 hugs a day for growth”
—Virginia Satir, family therapist
– from the movie “Crash”
Recent studies show that there is a link between positive emotions and hugging. Well, that’s mildly said; actually
Hugging is the best antidepressant … it’s healing comforting and nourishing
How to Fake an Orgasm
This video instruction would be funny, if it wasn’t for the facts that studies show that over 75% of women admit to having faked it AT LEAST once.
to cry is to risk appearing sentimental and soft,
to reach out to another is to risk involvement,
to show up and expose your feelings is to risk exposing your inherent self,
to place your ideas, your dreams, your desires before people is to risk their loss,
to love is to risk you might not be loved in return,
to live is to risk dying,
to show strength is to risk showing weakness,
to do is to risk failure,
the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing,
the person who risks nothing gets nothing, has nothing, is nothing,
he may avoid suffering, pain, sorrow, but he does not learn, he does not grow, he does not live, he does not love, he has sold, forfeited freedom, integrity, he is a slave, chained by safety, locked away by fear,
because, only a person who is willing to risk not knowing the result