Archive for Intimacy Skills
What is the difference?
I have heard, “It’s just a cute way of saying that someone else is masturbating you”, and you’d be forgiven to think so considering all the various videos and written material out there.
As an Intimacy Wellness therapist and educator, I would like to show you a different way, a way that brings wholeness, healing, and flourishing.
As there are so many wonderful men reading on this site, I would like to address this post to you and how to make your lady really feel nourished and opened up in a new way.
It all boils down to intention, being fully present with meditative consciousness. You have there in front of you a divine being.
Now, she may not feel divine, in her mind she may not look divine, but you have the power to consciously activate the loving masculine in you in order to release the radiant feminine divine in her.
Want to know how?
So, I already had a climax, triggered off by that well placed stroke on the very ready volcano … what next?
I was curious what he would do, would he just let it be, or get back into a repeat stroke pattern, or …
A survey found that around a third of the adult population – about 18 million people – has suffered an ache or strain either during or after bouts of passion.
There are the ones who pucker tightly before the kiss. There are the nibblers who chew around the edge of your lips. Then there are the ones who use lots of saliva, and others who are very dry. There are the firm ones, the tender ones, the fast ones and the slow, leisurely take-all-day ones. There are the teasers, who open their mouth slightly, and the prodders. A good kisser has an arsenal of techniques and can gauge the situation to decide which strategy to use.
How to Fake an Orgasm
This video instruction would be funny, if it wasn’t for the facts that studies show that over 75% of women admit to having faked it AT LEAST once.
With you there is usually proof, it’s evident and noticeable. However, with the female anatomy being a mystery to many, it can be difficult for some of you guys to be certain that your partner actually really had one, unless you know what to look for and really know her well especially if you two have great communication skills.
An improved sex life makes such a difference in all areas of a couple and family life. In relationships, what happens when sex and intimacy are not working, you two aren’t allies in the daily challenges of life, or connected in the same way, so everything suffers in ways you may not even recognise it first. This feeling of connectedness which believe it or not comes from a satisfied intimate sex life, does positively affect even parenting skills and the overall well-being of life together. You’ll find that she’s less stressed out, taking life better.
So, allow me to share with you what you can do to be certain to get her to swoon, blissing out in a real orgasm … every time …. as well as what not to do …. read on.
Many women I have worked with in private consultations would love a sensual massage, if only it would not lead to sex. Many women feel like they really need loving and sensual touch desperately, but in order to get it, they have to pay with sex. I have heard women say, “The only time he touches me the way I need to be touched is when he wants sex!”
OK, Gentlemen, so what is the solution? How can you have a happy woman who actually craves for sex after a massage?
So, how do you kiss in a sensual and meaningful way that ignites an even stronger delicious passion?
Kissing is so yummy because you have more nerve endings in your lips than just about anywhere else in the body, plus your heart meridian goes straight through the centre of your lips!
What makes an awesome kisser? Not so much the techniques (although they are important, the reason I wrote this) It’s Presence! When you practice Deep Passionate Kissing, it makes you get totally present when kissing.
Bad kissing basically means, you’re not there and just use skills and techniques to impress someone ….
However, As you do need some great ingredients, here are some ideas to get you going:
This lingering kissing is more advanced and must never be rushed. It is deliciously relaxing and intoxicatingly beautiful. By the way, it is sometimes referred to as “French Kissing”, but I feel it goes beyond that, especially if you have a deep sensual and loving intimacy with your partner …
There is a very important rule that has to do with your attitude and intention:
It’s the loving dance of pleasure of giving and receiving, as opposed to ‘grabbing’, taking, and being a performance master.
Let me explain and give you some luscious scrumptious tips that will change your kissing pleasure forever …..
Most couples, especially if they have been together for a long time, are so busy with life. There are kids, bills have to be paid, jobs demanding, and just too many things require our constant attention. We rush around and not take the time necessary to create intimacy, to just deliberately and on purpose *being* with our loved one, feeling them and appreciating them.
So how do you keep this passion fresh, or rekindle the fire?