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At Geli's Intimacy Wellness Studio, Journey Of Intimacy

At Geli’s Intimacy Wellness Studio, Journey Of Intimacy

What is the difference?

I have heard, “It’s just a cute way of saying that someone else is masturbating you”, and you’d be forgiven to think so considering all the various videos and written material out there.

As an Intimacy Wellness therapist and educator, I would like to show you a different way, a way that brings wholeness, healing, and flourishing.

As there are so many wonderful men reading on this site, I would like to address this post to you and how to make your lady really feel nourished and opened up in a new way.

It all boils down to intention, being fully present with meditative consciousness. You have there in front of you a divine being.

Now, she may not feel divine, in her mind she may not look divine, but you have the power to consciously activate the loving masculine in you in order to release the radiant feminine divine in her.

Want to know how?

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Is there such a thing as unconditional receiving of sexual pleasure? In your dreams, you might say …. Well, yes, that is what I thought for a very long time!

A lot of us women were indoctrinated by society, media, culture, or whatsoever/whosoever that we are responsible for the pleasure of the men in our lives. OK, many younger women do not buy into that myth so much anymore, some even demand pleasure as their birthright, so to speak. However, on the whole, we women tend to be influenced to be (act) sexy and look sexy to get a hot guy’s attention. Then, when things don’t turn out the way we hoped it to be in the bedroom department, many of us either blame ourselves for not having been hot enough ourselves, not moaned and writhed like a porn actress, too fat, too whatever … or taken responsibility for his discomfort, not giving him all the sex he wants … the lists go on …

Coming of age in the 60’s, as it was in my case, was confusing to say the least. We had the flower power revolution, Woodstock, “Make Love not War”. We were the pioneers of a new generation, with sexual liberation beckoning. I loved Swinging London’s Carnaby Street at the time, it was exciting to be a child of that era, but then …
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Gentle Whispers of Orgasmic Bliss

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I decided not to have any expectations, so I thought, ready to experience another orgasmic meditation. Once settled into the comfy position, I was ready to go. Somehow, the stroking touch was way too gentle and slow, I was hardly feeling anything. I wanted to feel, in fact I was hungry to feel fireworks … I wanted a climax to take me over the edge …. I wanted …
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May this video clip below be a catalyst to let the healing begin. Whether you are a man reading and watching this or a woman, we all have fallen short of our highest potential. We all have at one time or another hurt each other, knowingly or unknowingly. Many times we acted out of our own pain. It is time to forgive. Forgiving does NOT mean that we condone the acts, behaviours and words of the transgressor. It means to let go so that we can be healed.

The video below is very powerful. As a woman, I have to admit that I was choking up and tears coming to my eyes. I was deeply touched and feel very honoured! All I can say is a very heartfelt “Thank You!”
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“We need 4 hugs a day for survival.
We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance.
We need 12 hugs a day for growth”

—Virginia Satir, family therapist

“It’s the sense of touch. In any real city, you walk, you know? You brush past people, people bump into you. In L.A., nobody touches you. We’re always behind this metal and glass. I think we miss that touch so much, that we crash into each other, just so we can feel something ..”
– from the movie “Crash”

Recent studies show that there is a link between positive emotions and hugging. Well, that’s mildly said; actually

Hugging is the best antidepressant … it’s healing comforting and nourishing
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Please allow me to honour and thank all the men that have such a profound impact of love in my life, from my own father to my own son, and to all those wonderful men who I had and will have the privilege to experience their wisdom, deep masculinity and sincere love. Some men do not know how to express that deep unwavering love and devotion, but it is still there, unquestionably so!

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Je t’aime

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Receive love first and love yourself before you can love others the way they need to be loved. A powerful scene from the movie!

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Some time ago I came across a documentary of two brothers who grew up in the worst part of the Bronx in New York. Their mother was a prostitute; domestic violence was the norm in that family. Their father was either full of drugs or alcohol, in and out of jail, and finally stayed there for murder. One of the two brothers followed his father’s footsteps and also wound up in jail. His brother, however, went to school, won scholarships, became a successful lawyer, and happily married with three children. When they were interviewed and asked what caused them to become who they are, both of them gave the same reply, “Because of our father”.

It rather goes to show that it is not the circumstances that cause us to become who we are, but rather how we interpret the circumstances and live accordingly. In other words we can allow circumstances to use us, or we use circumstances. The choice is ours.

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How to Fake an Orgasm

This video instruction would be funny, if it wasn’t for the facts that studies show that over 75% of women admit to having faked it AT LEAST once.



    With you there is usually proof, it’s evident and noticeable. However, with the female anatomy being a mystery to many, it can be difficult for some of you guys to be certain that your partner actually really had one, unless you know what to look for and really know her well especially if you two have great communication skills.

    An improved sex life makes such a difference in all areas of a couple and family life. In relationships, what happens when sex and intimacy are not working, you two aren’t allies in the daily challenges of life, or connected in the same way, so everything suffers in ways you may not even recognise it first. This feeling of connectedness which believe it or not comes from a satisfied intimate sex life, does positively affect even parenting skills and the overall well-being of life together. You’ll find that she’s less stressed out, taking life better.

    So, allow me to share with you what you can do to be certain to get her to swoon, blissing out in a real orgasm … every time …. as well as what not to do …. read on.

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Many men feel that there is nothing like a sensual massage before having sex to get her into the mood. Now, whilst this may be true in many instances, it’s not always the case.

Many women I have worked with in private consultations would love a sensual massage, if only it would not lead to sex. Many women feel like they really need loving and sensual touch desperately, but in order to get it, they have to pay with sex. I have heard women say, “The only time he touches me the way I need to be touched is when he wants sex!”

OK, Gentlemen, so what is the solution? How can you have a happy woman who actually craves for sex after a massage?

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