Small capillary waves building up as I relaxed into a hungry surrender to the stroking. Masterfully, he gently stroked my clitoris and either held the build up, or upstroked into a new wave, only to ride on this wave, holding me with my desirous tumescence building up, then surfing down that wave knowing all too well that a mightier wave was following. Familiar and extremely welcome delicious electricity like energy radiating and pulsing from my pussy to every part of my body … my arms, my legs … tingling all over into an expanding energy fuzziness … finally my body erupting into uncontrollable undulation of orgasmic bliss …
He cupped his hands over my pussy. No rush. He stilled himself, centered himself and became very present. I decided not to have any expectations, so I thought, ready to experience another orgasmic meditation. Once settled into the comfy position, I was ready to go. Somehow, his touch was way too gentle and slow, I was hardly feeling anything. I wanted to feel, in fact I was hungry to feel fireworks … I wanted a climax to take me over the edge …. I wanted …
I realised that I had a choice to ask for harder, faster, more pressure, more to the left, etc., or, I could choose to go deeper inside myself.
How to Fake an Orgasm
This video instruction would be funny, if it wasn’t for the facts that studies show that over 75% of women admit to having faked it AT LEAST once.
Either in workshops or when couples come to me for help, I coach them on various levels uniquely to their needs. Invariably the question comes up from the guys, “How do I relax my lady to the point where she will want to completely melt into bliss?”
Many men feel that there is nothing like a sensual massage before having sex to get her into the mood.
Now, whilst this may be true in many instances, it’s not always the case.
Many women I have worked with in private consultations would love a sensual massage, if only it would not lead to sex. Many women feel like they really need loving and sensual touch desperately, but in order to get it, they have to pay with sex. I have heard women say, “The only time he touches me the way I need to be touched is when he wants sex!”
OK, Gentlemen, so what is the solution? How can you have a happy woman who actually craves for sex after a massage?