I just read your MYTH article and can say that I’ve heard this concept before, and grasped it. The thing is, I’m very aware of the ‘work on your weaknesses’ world around me and feel like I’m probably modelling this mentality. Yuk!

It’s despicable when you think about it – cos it’s all about pride and self-achievement!

I need help with this, please, as it’s also messing up my releationships!

After my divorce, I’ve been lonely and dating off/on, but have given up the dating scene as I find it a waste of time and money; plus I found I was attracting the wrong type of woman. I feel maybe I should just be myself and get on with life ….

However, I think I love someone I dated last year. After praying the soul ties prayer I still think of her often, ….