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She needs more of me than I have to offer – please help
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Hi there!
I read your teachings, especially the “90 Days Challenge”, with great interest. I am a scientist working abroad. I have a girlfriend of three years who I love very very very much. However, we have communication issues and I always feel like she needs more of me than I have to offer. My problem is that I give so much to my work. Because I work (predominantly with animals) they demand more of my attention and love than other people have to give in other jobs. I am really at the end of my tether because when I come home (she’s unemployed by the way) she’s just sitting there surrounded by empty packets of biscuits demanding satisfaction. When I suggest that she takes up a hobby, she just growls and rolls over.
I understand that you don’t want to hear excuses – and I am ready to throw myself into providing her with the greatest 90 days of her life. But where can I begin? I asked her to make a list of the top ten things she needs to feel loved and she just laughed and then went to sleep. She won’t come with me even to the supermarket.
Your methods seem to be innovative and unique. Can you give me any advice?
Dr. David M.
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Strengths and Weaknesses?
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Dear Geli,
I just read your MYTH article and can say that I’ve heard this concept before, and grasped it. The thing is, I’m very aware of the ‘work on your weaknesses’ world around me and feel like I’m probably modelling this mentality. Yuk!
It’s despicable when you think about it – cos it’s all about pride and self-achievement!
I need help with this, please, as it’s also messing up my releationships!
‘Getting beyond weaknesses determined!’
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Dating vs Friendships?
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After my divorce, I’ve been lonely and dating off/on, but have given up the dating scene as I find it a waste of time and money; plus I found I was attracting the wrong type of woman. I feel maybe I should just be myself and get on with life …. However, I think I love someone I dated last year. After praying the soul ties prayer I still think of her often, …. Don’t know what to do?
Geli, help please!
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My girlfriend disclosed to me that her last boyfriend raped her, now she’s ultra sensitive to everything I do and say to her. We are not in a sexual relationship just seeing each other she has many insecurities and trust issues, and at present can’t even take a hug from me. Also previous partners have bullied and emotionally abused her. Please help me shed some light very complex situation, feel like crying as I write this. Heart Cry.
Dear Geli,
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