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So, I already had a climax, triggered off by that well placed stroke on the very ready volcano … what next?
I was curious what he would do, would he just let it be, or get back into a repeat stroke pattern, or …
I had mentally resigned into experiencing just pleasant stroking sensations, that would have been fine. After all, a deep and much needed release just happened….
I realised that I had a choice to ask for harder, faster, more pressure, more to the left, etc., or, I could choose to go deeper inside myself.
I felt myself sinking into a luscious state of relaxation, yet being carried into a floating inner concerto of fireworks …
The key with being in an orgasmic state is not to have a goal for climax, nor any expectations, other than unconditionally feeling pleasure.
For most my adult life I lived with expectations. Expectations such as, either, if you get physically too close to a man, he might ‘jump on you’. Or feeling responsible for his comfort and his pleasure. Or the expectations to climax so that his feelings are not hurt … the list goes on.
Not so with the conscious sacred intimacy lifestyle! Being a psychologist and therapist, to me this is powerfully healing.
© A.R.(“Geli”) Heimann, London 2014
A lover knows only humility, he has no choice.
He steals into your alley at night, he has no choice.
He longs to kiss every lock of your hair, don’t fret,
he has no choice.
In his frenzied love for you, he longs to break the chains of his imprisonment,
he has no choice.
Are you at your wit’s end thinking, “whatever I do is not good enough for her?” She complains, nags and is in a foul mood. Whatever solution you tell her she should do to solve her problem, she just storms out shouting that you’re just not listening to her?
I’m inviting you to check through the following suggestions which you can try out and do to produce the results you are looking for.
As a woman, I wish to stand up also on behalf of other women who have misunderstood you, who have manipulated you, who have wounded you, who have wanted to change you for who you really are, who did not treat you right, who acted out of their own pain against you and our deepest apologies for all the hurt we have caused you.