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Can you be real in your relationship? Really??
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What does it mean to trust and be real in an untrustworthy world? We all have friends, and some are closer than others. Some of us have partners and/or spouses; do we trust them enough to allow ourselves to be completely vulnerable?
Most of us know how to support each other, at least we think we do, and how to be good cheerleaders for each other. Somewhere along the line, however, we realise that no matter however much personal growth we have gone through, there is a gap between the potential we feel and how life is really occurring. There is often a glass ceiling that we feel in our own consciousness, and patterns still keep showing up such as insecurity.
Common anxieties keep coming up in partnerships, such as fearing that the other is more visible or better, or feeling that one is not adding enough value to the partnership, or other limiting believes. We tend to look at the partnership through a lens in terms of, ‘there’s got to be a winner or loser in this’, rather than being a co-laboratory team, and that becomes even more visible when couples divorce.
So, how do we navigate the hazards and joy of living with an open heart? Will jadedness from past disappointments and hurt prevent us to be really real? Is there an answer?
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How to Relax and Pamper Your Man
Posted by: | CommentsHey Ladies, do you want to do something special for your man? …. warning, it’ll make him swoon and groan … and then some …
OK, we all know that there is a time and place when we want to have red hot passionate sex with our guys, almost virtually ripping their clothes off … you know what I mean….
But then there are other times when raw passionate sex is not on the cards, he’s been on his feet all day, tired and exhausted and he just wants to chill out and relax.
At that point there is nothing more wonderful for him when you honour him with a pampering massage, starting at his feet. Even if you do not know where the Reflexology, or the VitaFlex points are, by giving him a massage, unhurried and fully conscious with presence, it will make a huge difference to him feeling very special.
OK, so, get yourself into a comfy position – I assume he is already.
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Five False Notions About Spiritual Sex
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Article by Suzie Heumann originally published at the Huffington Post
When people hear the term “spiritual sex,” a whole gamut of inaccurate notions and associations may leap to mind.
Let’s look at some of the most common misconceptions:















