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The flow of testosterone begins to gradually decrease at a rate of about 1 percent a year beginning at age 30. And for some men, the result over the years can be unpleasant or potentially life-changing.
By Sonja Isger (original Post)
Palm Beach Post Staff Writer
Is male menopause a true medical condition or just a good punch line when you’re 50-something and not feeling quite yourself?
You know, “Oh, that male menopause must’ve kicked in”?
Could your doctor really diagnose male menopause, or is it merely a phrase that Oprah or GQ use to hook you?
For the Ladies: What to do with Male Genitalia
Posted by: | CommentsI love these ’round table’ talks amongst women who compare notes on how to give their man more pleasure.
Enjoy!
Geli
Women and Body Image: a man’s perspective
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Advertising for lingerie Photo: PHILIPPE HAYS / ALAMY
Published: 7:00AM BST 23 May 2010 – Telegraph.co.uk
Ever wondered why a man can look at an advert featuring a six-pack and laugh, while a woman might look at a photograph of female perfection and fall to pieces? William Leith thinks he might have uncovered the answer ….
Celebrating the Unique Beauty of the Female Anatomy
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We desperately need to talk about the secrecy that surrounds the vagina, as it is the breeding ground for the insecurity that accompanies it.
Vaginal plastic surgery is the fastest-growing cosmetic procedure in this country. Either there is complete ignorance about what their own private parts look like, or women go to the other extreme and start chopping them about because they didn’t look like porn models.
How to Make Your Guy Last Longer in Bed
Posted by: | CommentsA humorous video to an age-old problem.
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How does having sex make you younger?
Posted by: | CommentsGuest post by Dr. Michael Roizen
The best prescription for your sexual organs isn’t one you can find in a pharmacy. It’s one you do in bed, in the shower, or on your weekend getaway. All the studies point to the fact that having sex makes you young.
IN THE NEWS: “Painful passion: thousands nursing secret sex injuries”
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Despite the padding the living room sofa proved to be the riskiest place to have sex Photo: ALAMY
Telegraph.co.uk – Published: 8:30AM BST 08 May 2010
A survey found that around a third of the adult population – about 18 million people – has suffered an ache or strain either during or after bouts of passion.
The Internal Clitoris
Posted by: | CommentsThis is a little fun educational video clip. The lady artist uses some colourful language, please do not get offended by it.
Ladies take yourselves off to a quiet and uninterrupted spot and sit down with a mirror between your legs to discover and admire your very personal unique pleasure landscape. Every woman looks uniquely different and very beautiful.
Gents, this is a useful introduction to your ladies beautiful pleasure garden, to be treated with absolute love, respect, gentleness and passion. Oh, and it’s well worth knowing that she has around 8,000 pleasure nerve-endings at her clitoris, that is … eehem …double the amount you have in your penis!
Enjoy! I’ll be putting on more educational videos.
Geli.
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You Must Kiss More Than The Lips – The type of kiss you’ll always remember.
Posted by: | CommentsGuest Article by: Maryanne Fisher, Ph.D.
There are the ones who pucker tightly before the kiss. There are the nibblers who chew around the edge of your lips. Then there are the ones who use lots of saliva, and others who are very dry. There are the firm ones, the tender ones, the fast ones and the slow, leisurely take-all-day ones. There are the teasers, who open their mouth slightly, and the prodders. A good kisser has an arsenal of techniques and can gauge the situation to decide which strategy to use.
Porn for Women
Posted by: | CommentsEhem … you really want to know?
Seriously?
I found these images on the Internet, enjoy!
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This video instruction would be funny, if it wasn’t for the facts that studies show that over 75% of women admit to having faked it AT LEAST once.
With you there is usually proof, it’s evident and noticeable. However, with the female anatomy being a mystery to many, it can be difficult for some of you guys to be certain that your partner actually really had one, unless you know what to look for and really know her well especially if you two have great communication skills.
An improved sex life makes such a difference in all areas of a couple and family life. In relationships, what happens when sex and intimacy are not working, you two aren’t allies in the daily challenges of life, or connected in the same way, so everything suffers in ways you may not even recognise it first. This feeling of connectedness which believe it or not comes from a satisfied intimate sex life, does positively affect even parenting skills and the overall well-being of life together. You’ll find that she’s less stressed out, taking life better.
So, allow me to share with you what you can do to be certain to get her to swoon, blissing out in a real orgasm … every time …. as well as what not to do …. read on.
Relaxing Intimate Massage … how to set the stage for bliss
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Either in workshops or when couples come to me for help, I coach them on various levels uniquely to their needs. Invariably the question comes up from the husband, “How do I relax my wife to the point where she will want to completely melt into bliss?”
Sensual Massage – How To Give Her Loving Ecstatic Touch
Posted by: | CommentsMany men feel that there is nothing like a sensual massage before having sex to get her into the mood. Now, whilst this may be true in many instances, it’s not always the case.
Many women I have worked with in private consultations would love a sensual massage, if only it would not lead to sex. Many women feel like they really need loving and sensual touch desperately, but in order to get it, they have to pay with sex. I have heard women say, “The only time he touches me the way I need to be touched is when he wants sex!”
OK, Gentlemen, so what is the solution? How can you have a happy woman who actually craves for sex after a massage?
Strengths and Weaknesses?
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Dear Geli,
I just read your MYTH article and can say that I’ve heard this concept before, and grasped it. The thing is, I’m very aware of the ‘work on your weaknesses’ world around me and feel like I’m probably modelling this mentality. Yuk!
It’s despicable when you think about it – cos it’s all about pride and self-achievement!
I need help with this, please, as it’s also messing up my releationships!
‘Getting beyond weaknesses determined!’
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The Strengths and Weaknesses MYTH
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(I wrote this article for the Journey of Intimacy Community™)
It is epidemic with a worldwide obsession:
‘Let’s fix what is wrong and let the strengths take care of themselves’
In the business world, managers spend most of their time working with the weakest performers and zeroing in on their mistakes.
Parents and teachers focus on students’ lowest grades rather than on their highest.
Almost all of a country’s social work is focused on problems instead of helping people become self-sufficient.
Why do we continue to focus all our energies on fixing weaknesses while ignoring strengths? Why do we continue to work at some activities without getting better at them?
Christian Dating vs Friendships?
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Geli, help please!
After my divorce, I’ve been lonely and dating off/on, but have given up the dating scene as I find it a waste of time and money; plus I found I was attracting the wrong type of woman. I feel maybe I should just be myself and get on with life ….
However, I think I love someone I dated last year. After praying the soul ties prayer I still think of her often, ….
Don’t know what to do?
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Your 2010 Goals for your Intimate Relationship
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We’re already halfway through January, and I wonder if you, like so many, have set goals for yourself for the New Year. But I ask you, “What are the goals for your intimate relationship, current or future?”
We so often hope and pray that things will change, and faith is monumentally important! However, many times we overlook that it is in our own power to change our relationships and/or our circumstances by changing the one person we can change: ourselves!
To have a successful intimate relationship with your loved one or yourself, you want to consider achieving some of these goals this year:
“No sex please, we’re married”
Posted by: | CommentsA study says 20 million U.S. couples have sex less than 10 times a year. ——- | original airdate: FEB 20 2009
Whoopi Goldberg, Joy Behar, Elisabeth Hasselbeck, Sherri Shepherd and Barbara Walters
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Dealing With a Sexless Marriage:
Sex may be on television, in the theaters and advertising, but it’s not in the homes of 20 million American couples who are in sexless marriages.
Once a taboo topic, sexless marriages are getting more attention, in part because so many couples are complaining about the lack of sexual activity in their unions, according to one gynecologist.
It’s an epidemic, Dr. Hilda Hutcherson said.
In a sexless marriage, couples only are sexually intimate 10 or fewer times a year.
Enjoy this humorous video clip,
Geli
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Dare to Show Up and Really Love in 2010
Posted by: | Comments“To laugh is to risk appearing a fool,
to cry is to risk appearing sentimental and soft,
to reach out to another is to risk involvement,
to show up and expose your feelings is to risk exposing your inherent self,
to place your ideas, your dreams, your desires before people is to risk their loss,
to love is to risk you might not be loved in return,
to live is to risk dying,
to show strength is to risk showing weakness,
to do is to risk failure,
the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing,
the person who risks nothing gets nothing, has nothing, is nothing,
he may avoid suffering, pain, sorrow, but he does not learn, he does not grow, he does not live, he does not love, he has sold, forfeited freedom, integrity, he is a slave, chained by safety, locked away by fear,
because, only a person who is willing to risk not knowing the result
is free” (Anonymous)
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It’s Saturday night, or your ‘Date Night’, as some couple have them, or any other night to go out with your man, you have been looking forward to with great anticipation. You even may have bought yourself a new dress, nursing a secret dream that he would swoon all over you …..
You’ve spent the last hour shaving your legs, getting your hair just right to compliment your glowingly beautiful make-up and walk into the living room to find him in his old blue-jeans slouched on the sofa engrossed and entranced in the latest game on the screen in front of him with not the slightest interest going anywhere fast!
What is your first reaction?
INTIMACY TIP: The Lingering Kiss – Some Advanced Techniques
Posted by: | CommentsThis lingering kissing is more advanced and must never be rushed. It is deliciously relaxing and intoxicating.
There is a very important rule that has to do with your attitude and intention:
The loving paradox of giving and receiving, as opposed to ‘grabbing’, taking, and being a performance master.
Let me explain and give you some luscious scrumptious tips that will change your kissing pleasure forever …..
Dear Geli,
My girlfriend disclosed to me that her last boyfriend raped her, now she’s ultra sensitive to everything I do and say to her. We are not in a sexual relationship just seeing each other she has many insecurities and trust issues, and at present can’t even take a hug from me.
Also previous partners have bullied and emotionally abused her.
Please help me shed some light very complex situation, feel like crying as I write this.
Heart Cry.
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INTIMACY TIP: How to Tune Into Your Loved-One
Posted by: | CommentsYou’re freshly in love and your heart is just there! …. Now, so many years later how do you rekindle this delicious intimacy? …. or do you just need a little tweeking?
Most couples, especially if they have been together for a long time, are so busy with life. There are kids, bills have to be paid, jobs demanding, and just too many things require our constant attention. We rush around and not take the time necessary to create intimacy, to just deliberately and on purpose *being* with our loved one, feeling them and appreciating them.
So how do you keep this passion fresh, or rekindle the fire?
