Sensual Massage – How To Give Her Loving Ecstatic Touch

Many men feel that there is nothing like a sensual massage before having sex to get her into the mood. Now, whilst this may be true in many instances, it’s not always the case.

Many women I have worked with in private consultations would love a sensual massage, if only it would not lead to sex. Many women feel like they really need loving and sensual touch desperately, but in order to get it, they have to pay with sex. I have heard women say, “The only time he touches me the way I need to be touched is when he wants sex!”

OK, Gentlemen, so what is the solution? How can you have a happy woman who actually craves for sex after a massage?

My advice is, give her loving touch and a sensual massage WITHOUT any expectations, and just tune into her what she needs. Release your strong masculine presence from within your heart that totally focuses love and passion into her without interference from your own needs.


It may lead to sex, but then it also might not be. If she feels that she can relax to enjoy a massage without any ‘obligations’, she might relax so much that she will actually want sex herself. If she doesn’t, well, give it to her as a gift without any strings attached.

Touch her without having your needs in mind; touch her without thinking what a great dude you are knowing these brilliant techniques to give her all the pleasure. Instead, touch her like you are exploring with your fingers the most deliciously velvety silky smooth sensation … her skin. ‘Drink in’ the exquisite sensation you feel as you tune into your own hands and tuning into her. Be fully present, don’t get distracted. Feel her and respond to her flow like a skilled surfer.

You just might be surprised what will happen!

Invariably I am asked what essential oil would be good for her body and for her to feel good.

Well, meet Sensation™ Massage Oil! It is designed to encourage romance and excitement. The wonderfully fragrant aroma in this powerfully emotional blend is extremely uplifting and refreshing. Specially blended with jasmine, ylang ylang, and other complementary essential oils, the Sensation essential oil blend is combined with V-6™ Vegetable Oil Complex to enhance the massage experience and increase the enjoyment of cherished moments.

Here are some more essential oil blends that are wonderful for your lady, “Sensation”, the same as in the already mixed massage oil with rosewood, ylang ylang, and jasmine in it. You could also add it to a Young Living Essential Oils diffuser and create the most deliciously relaxing ambience.

Joy™ is a luxuriously exotic blend with uplifting overtones that creates magnetic energy and brings joy to the heart. When worn as cologne or perfume, Joy exudes an alluring and irresistible fragrance that inspires romance and togetherness. When diffused, it can be refreshing and uplifting. The ingredients of Joy are: Bergamot, ylang ylang, geranium, rosewood, lemon, mandarin, jasmine, Roman chamomile, palmarosa, and rose.

If you dilute the oils for massage yourself remember the following:

Only mix as much as you need. If you have left over store in a dark amber container. Reason. Essential oils are light sensitive. The moment they come in contact with light the molecules clump together. The result is they then lose the medicinal quality of being able to penetrate the skin to get into the blood stream and also the quality to permeate through the blood brain barrier, which is part of the healing. (drugs do that, these oils do it too, but the difference is these oils are natural.

Young Living Ready Mixed Massage Oils.

If you do not use V6 or the Young Living proprietory massage oils, make sure that the carrier oil does not come in a clear glass bottle but dark amber for the same reason as above. Also, never use mineral oils such as baby oil. The molecules of mineral oils are larger and cannot penetrate the skin, they are meant as a barrier.

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