We’re already halfway through January, and I wonder if you, like so many, have set goals for yourself for the New Year. But I ask you, “What are the goals for your intimate relationship, current or future?”

We so often hope and pray that things will change, and faith is monumentally important! However, many times we overlook that it is in our own power to change our relationships and/or our circumstances by changing the one person we can change: ourselves!

To have a successful intimate relationship with your loved one or yourself, you want to consider achieving some of these goals this year:

• Really get to know your loved one from their perspective and your own (yes, that means stepping out of your own map of reality into theirs and explore their inner territory).

• Do you really understand your loved one’s deep inner values and needs in the order of their importance, not your own? …. and do they match with your own?

• Do you actually know your own needs and life values .. or do you live according to someone else’s?

• No matter how hard you try to work through issues and good intentions, do you get stuck and sabotage yourself at the same points over and over?

• Have you been struggling with any of the following problems?

o Low self-esteem and negative self thoughts
o Depressed moods
o Anxiety concerns, constant worries
o Loneliness
o Anger
o Sexual issues
o Addictive behaviours?

• Have you been dreaming of your relationship full of fun and sizzle (again), but have no clue how to go about it?

If the list above got you thinking, I have good news for you and some tangible help.
First of all, the Journey of Intimacy has its own Community with FREE membership. The site is packed full of tips and valuable info on relationship and sexual health issues. Take a look at: Journey Of Intimacy Community

Then you also can get some private and very confidential help here on the Journey of Intimacy website

In your quest to make a difference in your life and relationship, you’re not alone. Reach out and let’s do it together!

________________________________
© Copyright Geli Heimann – Journey Of Intimacy™ 2010. All Rights Reserved

WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE OR BLOG POST IN YOUR NEWSLETTER, EZINE OR WEB SITE? You can, as long as you include this complete blurb with it:

Journey Of Intimacy™ – Geli Heimann BSc (Hons), MSc, is a NLP Practitioner, Relationship Psychologist, Business Psychologist and Psychosexual Educator, based on Positive Psychology, Mind Technologies and Christ-Centred Spirituality – an Invitation to Hope, Healing, Growth, Joy and Bliss.

Rev. Heimann combines Christ-Centred Spirituality with Positive Psychology to assist couples or individuals seeking her advice to discover their unique personal inner strengths, build their faith, wellness, well-being, and happiness: mentally, emotionally, sexually and spiritually, to facilitate growth, and learn skills to build positive emotions, optimism and resilience while decreasing unhelpful thinking, behaviours and emotions. For more check out: www.JourneyOfIntimacy.com

————

Enjoyed this Post? You can subscribe to further articles and blog posts from the Journey of Intimacy™ by Email. CLICK HERE TO GET IT!

.