Archive for September, 2009
Dear Geli,
My girlfriend disclosed to me that her last boyfriend raped her, now she’s ultra sensitive to everything I do and say to her. We are not in a sexual relationship just seeing each other she has many insecurities and trust issues, and at present can’t even take a hug from me.
Also previous partners have bullied and emotionally abused her.
Please help me shed some light very complex situation, feel like crying as I write this.
Heart Cry.
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INTIMACY TIP: How to Tune Into Your Loved-One
Posted by: | CommentsYou’re freshly in love and your heart is just there! …. Now, so many years later how do you rekindle this delicious intimacy? …. or do you just need a little tweeking?
Most couples, especially if they have been together for a long time, are so busy with life. There are kids, bills have to be paid, jobs demanding, and just too many things require our constant attention. We rush around and not take the time necessary to create intimacy, to just deliberately and on purpose *being* with our loved one, feeling them and appreciating them.
So how do you keep this passion fresh, or rekindle the fire?
